The bridesmaids
Ah, the bridesmaids and the maid/matron of honour. Your closest friends and family standing with you as you marry the person of your dreams. Now that designers are creating dresses that your girls can wear after the wedding, girls don’t have to worry about having a taffeta poufy dress with a huge bow on the butt haunt them every time they open their closet.
By looking for quality construction, beautiful fabrics and timeless design your bridesmaids can look great at your wedding and have a useful dress afterwards. This is an area for delicate negotiation. You want to find a gown that works for everyone. Your bridal party no longer has to wear all the same dress or all the same colour. Today’s brides are going with the same colour but a flattering cut for each girl, or vice versa. Some don’t even match that up.
Be considerate. Wedding tradition says the girls pay for their own outfits. It is an honour to be asked to be a party of your wedding day, set a budget and stick to it. You want your girls to look amazing without having to break the bank.
When choosing your wedding party, keep in mind these people will be a great support system for you during the planning stages. They will help stuff invitations, interview vendors, choose themes and colours and plan and throw a lot of the associated parties that go along with your wedding day.
Set up a time early on in the planning stages to have a brainstorming session with your girls. Have everyone bring something to nibble on, and set it up like an intimate party for just you and your girls. Once everyone has a better idea of what you are looking for, planning and execution of those plans will go a lot smoother.
Difficulties and disagreements are bond to arise. Lay down some ground rules with your wedding party so you can ease through any problems like this with less stress. This is your wedding day so the final call really comes down to you. Your wedding party should put aside their disagreements and keep the foremost in their minds.
Don’t forget – you can never say “thank you” too often. You are responsible for getting your wedding party thank-you gifts. These are usually presented at the rehearsal dinner with the parents’ gifts. You don’t have to get everyone the same thing, but try to spend the same amount of money on each person.
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Really great options coming out over the last couple of years for bridesmaids dresses. They don’t even have to be the same colour, as long as they compliment each other and your colour scheme. Try keeping them all within the same colour family, or keeping with the same colour, but letting the girls pick the different styles that suit their body types.
